What is "BDSM"? "BDSM" is an acronym of "B&D" (Bondage & Discipline), "D&S" (Dominance & Submission), and "S&M" (sadomasochism). "BDSM" refers to any or all of these things, and a lot of stuff besides. Tying up your lover is BDSM; so is flogging that person, or bossing that person around, or any of a thousand other things. BDSM is highly erotic, usually (though not always) involves sex or sexual tension; and is highly psychologically charged. One person (the "submissive") agrees to submit to another person (the "dominant"); or, alternately, one person agrees to receive some sort of sensation, such as spanking, from another. Some people like to be submissive all the time, some people like to be dominant all the time; some people like to switch, being submissive one day and dominant the next. Many people practice some element of BDSM in their sexual lives without even necessarily being aware of it. They may think of "S&M" as "That sick stuff that people do with whips and cattle prods and stuff," yet still blindfold one another from time to time, or tie one another down and break out the whipped cream... All of these things are "BDSM." BDSM is not necessarily hardcore sadomasochism; it can be remarkably subtle and sensual and soft. Pinning your partner to the bed and running silk or ice cubes or rabbit fur over your lover's body qualifies as "BDSM" (specifically, of a variety called "sensation play"). BDSM is NOT abuse! People who are practicing BDSM in any of its trillions of forms are doing it voluntarily, for fun. It's a way to explore. Everything that happens in a BDSM relationship is consensual; and believe it or not, it's not just about the dominant getting what he or she wants--it's more about the submissive getting what he or she wants. An abuser has no regard for the feelings, needs, or limits of the victim. A BDSM dominant is concerned above all else with the needs and desires of the submissive. Pretty straightforward, really. On the folowing pages Y/you will find information,links ,discussion board and more all to help and entertain Y/you with this Beautifull Lifestyle that W/we share.There is no shame in admitting that Y/you enjoy B.D.S.M. . The shame comes from suppresing those feelings.never allowing them to rise to see the light of the day,to blosom and grow. and for Y/you to fully live and be what Y/you are. There is a wide range of activites within the BDSM Lifestyle. From the mild spanking,or lightly tieing of wrists during sexual play. to the exterem heavy S/M activites such as knife play, or breath control and blood sports. B.D.S.M is becomeing a widely exceptable activity. Forms or relationship to the Lifestyle pop up in daily life on a regualr basis. its enjoyed from the naughty next door neigbours.To the grey haired Lady playing the organ at church.The need to be apart of it knows no bounds and no age limits. its a wonderfull journey of self discovery. and E/each walks a diffrent path upon that journey. W/we all have the same common goal.To enjoy the World of B.D.S.M. In the following pages Y/you may find answers to some questions. ideas about how to improve upon the play or relationships Y/you now have. Or Y/you may just find helpfull links and topice for disussions. what W/we do hope is that Y/you find something that interests Y/you enough to try,or continue,or develop Y/your O/own personell ideals of what B.D.S.M is for Y/you.please enjoy Y/your stay. and as always .Y/your feed back upon the sites content and what Y/you may want to see here is greatly apprciated. email any comments or suggestions please