Doms

The following are short excerts from articles found through out the web. follow the "read more" to read the whole article. There will be more and more added in the futur.

Advice For The New Dominant

THE BEGINNING…First, You should take a serious look at yourself. What is it about BDSM that You find appealing? Do You wish a 24/7 relationship; taking on the responsibilities for deciding all aspects of a submissive’s life? Do You wish to encourage another to become the best person they can be? Do you wish BDSM just in the bedroom? Alternatively, is it something in-between? Whether, it's the sense of power gained in having another under Your full control or it is the pleasure to be found in administering pain, there is no right answer, except for Yourself.

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WHAT MASTERS NEED

A while back, i posted some “night thoughts” under the title “What slaves need.” The essay was well received (i’ve had more requests to make copies or to post it on Web sites than for anything else i’ve written). For some time i have wanted to accompany it with a complementary analysis of what Masters need, but the gestation of that has been longer and more difficult, no doubt because the mindset of a Master is foreign territory to me. Nonetheless, with input from some Masters i know, i feel that i’ve arrived at a conceptual framework that may at least be worthy of discussion.

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Knights vs. Gods

Naturally, for most slaves and submissives it is a most desirable, pleasing and romantic thought and wish to find and serve ones “Knight in Shining Armor”. And finding ones “Knight in Shining Armor” is just what many have set out to do. It seems like total bliss and fulfillment lays in finding ones “Knight”. The “Knight in Shining Armor” becomes a goal, an expectation, even a dream. However, this thinking becomes a slave’s trap.

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The Dominant Role



he one in charge - The step-by-step guide to the basics of BDSM proceed discussing the meaning of the single roles, Dominant and submissive, their typical traits, their flaws and their most interesting aspects. This time we'll discuss the Capital Letters Role, the one in charge - or at least supposed to be so...

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Training For The Modern Master

Let me list some ideas I use to manage a 24/7 LifeStyle. These are things that I have picked up along the way to provide me with a stable and safe environment. When I started into LifeStyle it was very clear to me that I needed some way to achieve my desires and supply for my basic needs. I needed a 24/7 slave that was not just my lover but also my friend and a thinking pet all rolled into one nice neat package. I craved the power exchange, the feeling deep in your soul at the moment your slave gives all to you. As I designed my life it was apparent that I needed not just a naked slave sitting on a mat beside me. It seemed silly to not have this slave available to me all the time. That meant on my lap, in my arms, at my feet, at any place I should want her to be. Next, I considered the idea of having a slave sleeping at the foot of the bed. I had to wonder about the purpose of this

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