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The following are short excerts from articles found through out the web. follow the "read more" to read the whole article. There will be more and more added in the futur.
Offline/Online BDSM Safety
For as long as I've been into BDSM, Safety has been one of my biggest issues and concerns. Rather that was being a safecall for someone, or simply passing out safety info to new people, I worked rather long and hard at it. When it got to be too much for me, I sat down and wrote four separate safety 'posts' or 'classes', that I distributed, and continue to distribute online. These postings have been passed down from person to person since I wrote them last year, so you may have seen them before. But even if you have, please re-read them. Your safety is too important to skip over.
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Online B.D.S.M.
The following snippets are my thoughts regarding online D/s. The cyber community has twisted D/s into a sad fantasy land where newbies truly believe that imaginary service of drinks is a must and Doms think they are Masters from day one. You may not like everything I have to say here. Tough. I don't care. Someone needs to speak up.
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Is Cyber Real?
The question of the reality of cyber interactions is one that is guaranteed to bring up an emotional disagreement at any time. There are two schools of thought that argue this point the most. First you have those who believe in the reality of cyber interactions, and second you have those who do not believe in them at all, insisting they are nothing but fantasy. There is a third group, these are the people that tend to straddle the fence and believe that cyber can be real but it doesn't hold a candle to real life in any way shape or form.
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Cyber Reality
n many ways this seems like a contradiction in terms. However, it cannot be overlooked that the advent of the internet has opened the access into the BDSM community in ways completely incomprehensible just a few years ago. Along with this new technology has come new issues, dangers and problems. In many ways the community itself was completely unprepared for this onslaught. People resist change and push away from things they don't understand. There are generational traditions and elitist attitudes that seperate the 'seasoned or experienced members' from these 'upstart newbies with their upstart ways, ideas and formula's'. Within this formerly unified community we have created a sub-community. One which many people speak of in disdain or contempt.
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What Is Crossover?
Crossover is when a dominant gives you orders and you follow them in real life. They can be anything from going to bed at a certain time, to sexual activities and daily rituals.
I have heard of crossover going to the extent of a submissive's day to day life being controlled by a dominant through the computer screen.
Crossover should not start until it has been thoroughly discussed and limits agreed to. Just how far are you willing to follow the orders of someone you have never met? It isn't something that happens in every relationship on IRC but there are many who expect it. So it is a good idea to know what it is and think about what you would feel comfortable with before the situation arises.
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